Sunday, 24 March 2013

Re: [Relationship-Talk] friends or more?

 

Hi there. You need to dump him. I think he is using you for sex and not including you in the rest of your life. Of course you can find another boyfriend, and hopefully someone who will treat you like a queen. Age does not matter. I met my husband when I was 54 and he in 9 years my junior. You go get girl!!

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On 23 Mar 2013, at 21:07, "heather.fromm" <heather.fromm@yahoo.com> wrote:

 

Hello I am seeing a man right now for about a year and a half he has
some health issues that I am concerned about but he never talks
about them I do not want to go into detail.

But I feel like he talks to his friends about them and I am in a sexual
realtionship with him and he don't want to talk to me and it really
hurts I feel like it is a slap in the face. Plus right after we
have sexual relations he seems to bolt not want to spend time with
me after he gets with me.

I am a shy girl have not been in many relationships and it was very
hard for me to get to this step with a man. In fact I went 10 years
almost without any sex because it was something I don't share with
to many people and I think most women are that way.

Now I am stuck because I love him and I am sure he don't feel the
same way I have felt him drifting the last month or two he is away
right now with family helping them out. That is another thing he helps
everyone around him but me I am expected to go it alone while he is
there for important events in his friends and familys lives.

I am feeling very much used and hurt because........put it this
way I was very much innocent and that is something he holds very
little regard for I always thought......I would be married as far
along as what I am in this relationship and we are not married.
I feel like a slut or tramp for having sex outside marriage he
does not know these feelings for one he is a man and also he has
had other relations so those kind of feelings he lost a long time
ago in the mean time I am ready to break it off because I can't take
feeling like this and he just has no feelings for me and I will
most likely never be with another man other then as friendship.
The whole idea of sex kind of revolts me because a man could make
it hold such little meaning.
Please help I am feeling so alone right now and used and hurt
I am not sure what to make of this are men just like this with
sex on a whole?

Anyway I am ready to move I can not take it around here anymore
he has too many friends I am alone here.
Help

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