Re: [Relationship-Talk] friends or more?

 

Hey there... well if u had idea of quiting.. jst quite.. dont hav second thought and regrets later... well may be he is not commited to you, because of his health issue .. why dont u take up this.. ask him openly.. share ur feelings.. dont worry he is man, he cant understand ur feelings.. nothing like that.. everything can be know.. else no point in continuing then.... --- On Sun, 24/3/13, xogenevieveox@gmail.com <xogenevieveox@gmail.com> wrote: From: xogenevieveox@gmail.com <xogenevieveox@gmail.com> Subject: Re: [Relationship-Talk] friends or more? To: "Relationship-Talk@yahoogroups.com" <Relationship-Talk@yahoogroups.com> Cc: "Relationship-Talk@yahoogroups.com" <Relationship-Talk@yahoogroups.com> Date: Sunday, 24 March, 2013, 6:56 AM   Hi there. You need to dump him. I think he is using you for sex and not including you in the rest of your life. Of course you can find another boyfriend, and hopefully someone who will treat you like a queen. Age does not matter. I met my husband when I was 54 and he in 9 years my junior. You go get girl!! Sent from my iPhone On 23 Mar 2013, at 21:07, "heather.fromm" <heather.fromm@yahoo.com> wrote:   Hello I am seeing a man right now for about a year and a half he has some health issues that I am concerned about but he never talks about them I do not want to go into detail. But I feel like he talks to his friends about them and I am in a sexual realtionship with him and he don't want to talk to me and it really hurts I feel like it is a slap in the face. Plus right after we have sexual relations he seems to bolt not want to spend time with me after he gets with me. I am a shy girl have not been in many relationships and it was very hard for me to get to this step with a man. In fact I went 10 years almost without any sex because it was something I don't share with to many people and I think most women are that way. Now I am stuck because I love him and I am sure he don't feel the same way I have felt him drifting the last month or two he is away right now with family helping them out. That is another thing he helps everyone around him but me I am expected to go it alone while he is there for important events in his friends and familys lives. I am feeling very much used and hurt because........put it this way I was very much innocent and that is something he holds very little regard for I always thought......I would be married as far along as what I am in this relationship and we are not married. I feel like a slut or tramp for having sex outside marriage he does not know these feelings for one he is a man and also he has had other relations so those kind of feelings he lost a long time ago in the mean time I am ready to break it off because I can't take feeling like this and he just has no feelings for me and I will most likely never be with another man other then as friendship. The whole idea of sex kind of revolts me because a man could make it hold such little meaning. Please help I am feeling so alone right now and used and hurt I am not sure what to make of this are men just like this with sex on a whole? Anyway I am ready to move I can not take it around here anymore he has too many friends I am alone here. Help

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