hi
i totally agree with ur its a two relationshi[
--- In Relationship-Talk@yahoogroups.com, "Kathleen" wrote:
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> I couldn't agree more I think parnters need to take the time to be interested in each other I believe a man should occasionally have to listen to all the woman talk just as well as I feel the woman needs to listen to man talk. I personally enjoy getting up in the morning and turning on SportCenter and hate talking about shopping lol. I do believe relationships are a two way street and both parties need to make and effort and talk about changes that need to be made. As the example I used last time my friend I have told her many times that if she would make an effort to be a better wife (she doesn't cook, clean, anything) her husband would probably be more loving.
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> --- In Relationship-Talk@yahoogroups.com, "JG303" wrote:
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> > Ms. Ogden,
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> > This is some very good advice......a little more (a lot more!) tempered than my own advice.
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> > I wanted to comment on the following remark you made:
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> > "my friend says she does these things because she feels her husband doesn't give her any attention."
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> > May I give you a man's point of view here also?
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> > Women need to learn to make themselves into someone who commands attention. I find many women (that I've ever dated, but not all) are interested only in their make-up, the latest fashions, getting their nails done, their social problems that they only want to talk about but never solve, being told you "love them" and how "lovely" they look today, and where are they going to dinner tonight, etc.
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> > Perhaps if they would make themselves more interesting to a man, they would get the attention they want.
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> > And, yes, that goes both ways. Men need to stop talking about sports, computers, cars, careers, and particularly they need to spend less time "bragging" about how wonderful they are, and more time "noticing" their partners!
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> > JG
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> > --- In Relationship-Talk@yahoogroups.com, "Kathleen Ogden" wrote:
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> > > I understand loving her that just doesn't go away as well as keeping her round you do have children together, but u can't keep putting yourself in a position of being hurt all the time plus regardless of their ages children can sense unhappiness. I always feel it's best to work things out but in this case I feel it'd be better for you if you left the situation. I have a friend who is just how you described your wife and I know she has no intentions of changing her cheating, partying ways, but there are two sides to every story and I know my friend says she does these things because she feels her husband doesn't give her any attention. Hope things work out for you.
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> > > ------Original Message------
> > > From: Thomas
> > > To: Relationship-Talk@yahoogroups.com>
> > > Date: Monday, June 27, 2011 3:38:33 PM GMT-0000
> > > Subject: [Relationship-Talk] Relationship help.... i need advice
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> > > hi first off i have been married to my wife for just under three years and we have 2 small children together. thing have been rough for a few years now and i ended up catching my wife in the begining of an affair. for three months we keep talking and trying to work on things. she keeps telling me she loves me and wants to be happy and have the relationship work. however i always just keep finding things between her and the other man. also she is out all the time and doesnt come home till 4 in the morning most times. just yesterday she finally admitted to me that she isnt in love with me and doesnt want it to be that way but cant change how she feels. she also said she didnt want to admit it. i dont know what i should do at this point after 3 months of just getting hurt constantly. i find myself hating her for what shes done but i cant help but want her around and in my life as a part of my life. she is still my wife and i do love her with all of my heart. plase give me your advice.
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