Re: [Relationship-Talk] RE: Just Miserable

 

Member wrote:

I am just miserable about getting married back on my birthday earlier this year. I am tired of playing nurse maid ( he has many numerous health issues) to a man who would have sex with anything that walks if he could. I feel like he takes me for granted. He had what I call an emotional affair last year and I have never fully forgiven him for it. Well let me rephrase...I have forgiven him but I just can't forget it no matter how hard I have tried.  I think it would have been much easier to deal with if he had just been honest from the get go but of course that would have been too easy.  Thank you for letting me stay anonymous. I am just so sad right now. I think if it wasn't for his health I would have left a long time ago...I feel guilted into staying with him because of his health.

I think even if you are 40 and dont have kids you still can do it with a surrogate mother, but for
that you need a husband to support it.

On Saturday, November 9, 2013 3:04 PM,  wrote:

I think you are doing fine. If you have enough courage to even talk about it and have laughs; you are doing great. My grandmother always told me to be extremely grateful of what you have because someone always has worse. And you can lose EVERYTHING in one dramatic moment. I do believe that you will be fine.

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On Nov 9, 2013, at 7:23 AM, ; wrote:

Hello may I say you must be honorable to take care of that many children. I admire you when I see women like this I just want to cry being that I never got to have children

or get married and I see this women who has it all. Do you ever watch that TV show

about deadly women or I can't remember what it is called but it is a show about

women who have gone bad. Sometimes I watch it and laugh because I think 

there is that women who has it all and she turns bad has a affair or even worse.

I was devastated when I turned 40 and was all alone with no children but the

year is almost up and I am feeling much better about things by watching stuff like

this because I see women who have it all and it is not enough still. So now I think

hey this is enough for little old me I will be alright if I don't ever get married and

well it is a sure thing now I will not have children at this age but I have enough

( do you understand? ) Sometimes in life you just have to be satisfied and say

I have enough and it helps keep you on the right path.

On Friday, November 8, 2013 4:37 PM, wrote:
 

She said it was an 'emotional' affair. I think she should get out more and meet up with friends. It's really hard and confining being a cater. I know!!

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On 5 Nov 2013, at 21:07wrote:

    HIS HEALTH CANT BE TO BAD IF HE IS OUT THERE CHEATING. ITS OBVIOUS HE DOESNT APPRECIATE  YOU SO MOVE ON I KNOW ITS HARD WHEN YOU CARE BUT THE PAIN WILL PASS. GOOD LUCK  CARL

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