my dear ure kids are more important than dat guy,he just want to pass time with u. what u do make new plans to leave dat guy.love is not all about sex its about care and respect.and if dat one is done ,dont rash get another man.
Hi. I'm new to the group. Having some issues with my relationship and really don't have anyone to share with. First I'm kinda stuck where I'm at right now because of some health issues that have recently come up. I moved in with my boyfriend in January and we have been together over a year and half. I knew we were different and expressed that to him early on. He is a biker and we have different sexual tastes. We are both in our 40's and he said he liked the differences we had. Well it seems like our differences are becoming issues. I'm afraid of the bike and don't want to ride it. He tells me that he doesn't like to ride it alone , after I said for someone who loves riding you don't ride at all. I worked in surgery and had to see too many accidents
and death and I have 4 kids and I'm the only parent that they have. My ex has fallen apart and gotten into drugs and doesn't help with the kids or support them for years. I've worked 2-3 jobs for years to take care of my kids. I know only have one left in high school.
My bf and I got into an argument sat and he just made me feel so bad like I'm taking advantage of him. If I get mad at him he has to turn it around and get defensive. I had a car accident and need to get my car fixed but I've been driving his 2nd vehicle till I could figure out what I was going to do and get money together to do something. He made a comment that he felt like I didn't need to worry about getting it fixed since I had his car. He just built a new house and I clean all if it, wash all the cloths and many other things. His job he only works a few times a month if that and the rest if the time he is home. He will wake me up and ask me to go give his son cough meds in the middle of the night and get him water. He said when the car thing happened I could drive the car till winter and than we would see about me getting something else. I asked him to call a friend of his who does body work and see what I could do to just get it drivable. He tells me he doesn't think that's his job to call about my car.
I'm not happy with the sex anymore because he doesn't try and please me once he is done that's it. I get pleased maybe 3 times to his 7-10 times. He will set there and tell me everything he wants me to do to him. Ask me to bath him if he is taking a bath, and wants me to tell him fantasies while having sex but he wants to hear how other women are doing him and says it has to be people we know so he can visulize it. He wants to hear me talk about bring home women that I work with. I've told him that I don't like it and its not normal to me. He knew from the start I'm not into 3 somes and all that. He said he understood. He has asked me to have sex with his bf so he could watch. I've. Made it clear that's not me and its not going to happen. I told him I need to feel like he would get pissed if a guy made a pass at me that I like a little possessiveness he said that he wasn't an enabler. I just don't know what to do anymore. I'm not in a position to move right. It's terrible to say but I can't afford it right now. I'm just lonely and unhappy right now. I know you can't change people but I thought he would be happy with me and not need those things but its gotten worse lately. Any suggestions ?
and death and I have 4 kids and I'm the only parent that they have. My ex has fallen apart and gotten into drugs and doesn't help with the kids or support them for years. I've worked 2-3 jobs for years to take care of my kids. I know only have one left in high school.
My bf and I got into an argument sat and he just made me feel so bad like I'm taking advantage of him. If I get mad at him he has to turn it around and get defensive. I had a car accident and need to get my car fixed but I've been driving his 2nd vehicle till I could figure out what I was going to do and get money together to do something. He made a comment that he felt like I didn't need to worry about getting it fixed since I had his car. He just built a new house and I clean all if it, wash all the cloths and many other things. His job he only works a few times a month if that and the rest if the time he is home. He will wake me up and ask me to go give his son cough meds in the middle of the night and get him water. He said when the car thing happened I could drive the car till winter and than we would see about me getting something else. I asked him to call a friend of his who does body work and see what I could do to just get it drivable. He tells me he doesn't think that's his job to call about my car.
I'm not happy with the sex anymore because he doesn't try and please me once he is done that's it. I get pleased maybe 3 times to his 7-10 times. He will set there and tell me everything he wants me to do to him. Ask me to bath him if he is taking a bath, and wants me to tell him fantasies while having sex but he wants to hear how other women are doing him and says it has to be people we know so he can visulize it. He wants to hear me talk about bring home women that I work with. I've told him that I don't like it and its not normal to me. He knew from the start I'm not into 3 somes and all that. He said he understood. He has asked me to have sex with his bf so he could watch. I've. Made it clear that's not me and its not going to happen. I told him I need to feel like he would get pissed if a guy made a pass at me that I like a little possessiveness he said that he wasn't an enabler. I just don't know what to do anymore. I'm not in a position to move right. It's terrible to say but I can't afford it right now. I'm just lonely and unhappy right now. I know you can't change people but I thought he would be happy with me and not need those things but its gotten worse lately. Any suggestions ?
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