There's a saying "If you want to know the mind of a man, listen to his words". You can't make someone love you or want a more serious relationship and she is being honest with you by telling you that she does not want to be exclusive. You may not agree or like what she is saying. It probably feels like a rejection all over again and of course very hurtful to have someone in front of you that you can't have completely the way you want them. You may be seeking her out too because it must feel very comfortable with her considering your past history and it's really scary to try and start a new relationship with someone else. Rather than the familiar and somewhat "safe" relationship, perhaps you should try and find a new relationship with someone who is looking for the same things you are? You may want to focus your efforts where they will be returned (and reciprocated). You owe that to yourself, right?
Good luck no matter what happens :o)
--- In Relationship-Talk@yahoogroups.com, "jules" <xogenevieveox@...> wrote:
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> Its sounds to me like she enjoys your company and sex with you but does not want to be in an exclusive relationship with you. So yes, if you are looking at settling down, this one does not seem to be the right one for you.
> Sorry
> Jules
>
> --- In Relationship-Talk@yahoogroups.com, "rjj6287" <rjj6287@> wrote:
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> > my girlfriend of 7 years broke up with me while I was in jail. when i get out we started talking to each other right away but did not see eachother. eventually we started to see eachother, then after a while i started going to her house again and hanging out for hours at a time. we tell eachother we love eachother when hanging up and saying bye and we kiss eachother when saying bye. we have had sex 4 times now. i really want to get back together with her but she says she wants to stay single and not be in a relationship with anybody. she has told me she talks to other guys but has done nothing physical with anybody but me. i am asking for advice about what i should do? i want to be back with her but not sure if its a good idea but would appreciate tips on how i can get her to get back with me in a exclusive relationship? or do you think im setting myself up for failure? i apologize that my question isnt exactly one but several but i would appreciate any input.
> > thank youu
> >
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