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Hi,
Love relationships are based on having several emotional needs met. Attraction and sex are only two of them. Meeting those needs only gets you part way. Are or have you been meeting the others?
Affection. Are you able to consistantly do the small things that say I Love You? Holding hands, hugs, smiles, kind words, the loving things NOT intended to get sex.
Are you able to be her companion, do the fun recreational things she likes to do?
Do you talk with her about unimportant thigs? The small talk, chit chat, about your day and hers that in NOT about needs or desires or problems.
Are you totally honest with her? NO secrets.
Can you show her you can and will provide for her and your future children a safe home?
Can you demonstrate the ability to povide for her?
Work on these and see if she does not come around.
Tom Blair
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> my girlfriend of 7 years broke up with me while I was in jail. when i get out we started talking to each other right away but did not see eachother. eventually we started to see eachother, then after a while i started going to her house again and hanging out for hours at a time. we tell eachother we love eachother when hanging up and saying bye and we kiss eachother when saying bye. we have had sex 4 times now. i really want to get back together with her but she says she wants to stay single and not be in a relationship with anybody. she has told me she talks to other guys but has done nothing physical with anybody but me. i am asking for advice about what i should do? i want to be back with her but not sure if its a good idea but would appreciate tips on how i can get her to get back with me in a exclusive relationship? or do you think im setting myself up for failure? i apologize that my question isnt exactly one but several but i would appreciate any input.
> thank youu
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