Dear all,
I'm new to this community & this is my first post. Me & my hubby were in love for close to 4 years after which we got married. We are married for close to 4 years now. He loves me & cares a lot for me. I do sometimes feel that he doesnt express his love (prbbly the way I want) but he says he is expressing (it in the way he knows). But we do have a past.
WHen we were in love, he was kind of in love with another girl. Probably, in crush I guess. She was mad behind him & even went to the extent of suicide. They never had any physical relnshp but I guess there was a liking for each other. His mom had warned him not to ditch me and he respects his mom a lot. I'm not very sure if it was his love for me or the respect for his mom that made him marry me. I trusted him (& still trust him)that he felt a bond with me. I threw all my relationships, family etc., for this guy & married him. His Ex, after our marriage, married someone else and now has a kid.
After her marriage too, these two were in touch through phone, email & chat. I dint take it seriously though I dint like it. I never told him that I'm not liking it - prbbly, I dont want him to think that I dont trust him. But she has been sending signals indirectly since her marriage that her family life & her hubby isnt very exciting. I suspect if she wanted to convey that if she had married my hubby she would've been good. Few days back, she again told my hubby that she attempted for suicide because of her family problems. I see that these two are talking for a long time (ofcourse not in front of me but after my hubby reached office) & my hubby is helping her emotionally. I somewhere feel intuitively that she is trying to create sympathy for her. I dono where this is gonna lead and how to manage my insecurity. I dono how to react, if at all I should.. Any advises??
| Reply via web post | Reply to sender | Reply to group | Start a New Topic | Messages in this topic (1) |
http://www.relationship-talk.com
Finding the Love You Want
The Cure for Being Single...When Nothing Else Has Worked
http://www.findingtheloveyouwant.com
The Emotional Freedom Technique
A Powerful Tool For Relieving Negative Emotions and Pain
http://www.EFT-Alive.com
No comments:
Post a Comment
Finish Reading ? Make Your Comment Now..!