--- In Relationship-Talk@yahoogroups.com, Qinxiaolan wrote:
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> Maybe to be loved or love is too easy for lovers,but to live togther is much hard. In my opinion, the best way is to live together to check if u r really can share the rest life, if he is the right guy who can experience the trivials in life.
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> --- 11å¹´8月17日，å`¨ä¸‰, Jessica S 写é"：
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> å`件人: Jessica S
> 主题: [Relationship-Talk] Is there anything wrong with this?
> æ"¶ä»¶äºº: Relationship-Talk@yahoogroups.com
> 日期: 2011å¹´8月17æ—¥,å`¨ä¸‰,下åˆ3:21
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> i read your story its seems the guy is serious about marriage i understand this long relationship to end with marriage i didnt like the gangs side in his life but he may out of the stream he love music and this is good sensitive being talking to girls in pubs and has sex with them this is may me be in his culutre but why would he tell you tthat if i was him i ll do the same but be less informative he is a good person and worth it to travel and see him good luck for both of you
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> I have been talking to this guy online for 8 months now. He was introduced by a close family friend whose husband is a colleague of this guy. Things went well and as we learn more about each other, the more we get to like each other… there are actually feelings involved already. We are currently half the globe apart and I am already working on my papers to move where he is.
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> He even introduced me to his mom, daughter (from previous marriage) and to his cousins online and he also enjoys talking to my mom and my daughter (from my previous marriage) as well. Some of his cousins even added me on Facebook. He told everyone (his mom, his daughter, his cousins and my mom) that I am the woman that he wants to come home to… He even cried in front of the webcam while he was telling my Mom about it. He even invited my friend's husband for dinner to thank him for introducing us. He said without him, he wouldn't be happy right now.
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> We came from a far different background and past. He experienced a lot of challenges that involved alcohol, women, drugs, being locked down due to gang fights, and I came from a clean and good family background. Now, this guy is trying to work his way up and focused into something that we both have a passion for â€" music. We both have regular day jobs and makes music for a hobby. We chat almost everyday after he comes home from work and we do webcam chats on weekends for 6 to 8 hours hehehe! We just enjoy talking about anything.
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> Everything is going on well so far but I am kinda bothered by what he said lately.. he admitted that he is already sure about me and looking forward to sharing his life with me. But he also said that he is currently talking to other women when he goes to the bar but most are just casual talks… which usually ends up telling them about me. He said that if it would lead to something more than talking (meaning sex), he might take it coz he's a guy. But when I'm already there, his door will be shut to any women and all he wants is a peaceful home for me, him and our daughters.
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> I did not react coz I want to understand the logic of it. Is there anything wrong in this picture?
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