[Relationship-Talk] Cancer man telling off devious Scorpio woman

 

I am a Cancer man, that has been dating a Scorpio woman off and on for a little over 4 years. we were in a relationship 09 and 10. Then we broke up and would talk once in a while and then she contacted me last December. We hung out and she was all over me, without me having to make a move. She had a child and was engaged and ended the engagement in spring 2013. We reconnected in June 2013 on a friendship level. She told me she had met someone she was interested in and that it wasn't serious. I was fine by that because I only wanted to be friends. Then we started finding that we still had the same connection almost like a soulmates connection (the feeling was heaven sent so I thought). She asked could she spend my birthday with me and we did. We had better sex than ever due to both of us being in superb physical shape. She could not keep up with me at all. The sessions were super intense.

Then I noticed she got really cold and she started playing games with me and disapearing and lying about things. Throughtout July and August. I was going to walk away from her several
times then she would tell me she loves and such and we would start hanging out talking and having sex as usual. Then repeat. I found that the person she was talking to is a Cancer too and I suspect she was sleeping with the both of us.

I'm thinking about really telling her off because she hasn't been honest about things and wasted my time this past summer instead of being honest and upfront. We still talk every now and then and I have seen her in pictures with the other cancer. I had words with the other cancer and told him that I've been dealing with her and basically to back off. Then I seen pictures on his Favebook taken at a hotel of them 2 days after we last had sex. It disgusted me to know that she would have sex with this man after we had sex for 3 hours 2 nights before unprotected and I came inside of her. We never used protection the past summer and it makes me angry that she would endanger my life byt lying. I shouldn't have trusted her. I'm typing a long letter that tells her off so that I don't miss anything that I've been wanting to say. I play to meet her after work and give it to her to read while I sit next to her.

The letter will be brutally honest and I want it to hit her emotionally. She has changed over the years and turned into everything that she used to despise and presents herself as a whore on social networks. She has been on a career and relationship downward spiral. I suspect she has lied about many things to me and to other people regarding our relationship. I was against burning bridges but she has proven nothing to me but that she is a liar and purposely hurt me. What do you think I should do? I plan on doing this today. Above all I feel like she should come clean and I will respect her for it. Otherwise I will burn the bridge and request anything I have given her to be returned.

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