Thank you... I Too try to not know what they are doing or about their business, and my husband also says he don't want to know about their business or see them on his own, but I feel like he just says that for me and my sake... I just hate it for our 5 year old and baby that is due in 3 weeks.. I want them to know all their family, but I cant bring my kids to be with people like them... Even when I do keep to myself though they always find a way to talk crap and make sure I know about it... like thru my childs dance studio for instance.. I don't want to take her out of dance.. She loves her studio... I really Do appreciate your advice though..Its kinda a relief to know that Im not alone in this...
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I've been in the same situation with my husbands family. So now I keep away from them and just get on with my life with work and friends. I try not to run them down and I never try to stop my husband seeing them. I don't want to know what they are doing or about their problems. It's so much easier to just rise above it!
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My husband and I have been together for the past 8 years and married for 4 of them... Every since I can remember his sisters have treated me Terribly.... It has gotten so out of hand that We have completely cut off all contact with them... Well I have anyway.. What usually happens is they find stupid things to pick a fight about either call my husband and start freaking out on him, or they will post nasty things about me of Facebook.....Recently one of his sisters went as far as bringing our unborn baby into it and started spreading rumors around my daughters dance studio that The baby im carrying isn't his... and that they Feel sorry for our unborn child because she wont have any of them to love her because I have literally chased them all off with Running my mouth and acting like Im better than them....I have Cut myself off from them, stoped attending their family functions ( ususally pretend Im sick) and removed them from my facebook even gone as far as blocking them... the worst and most upsetting part for me is that I feel like my husband is not defending me to the best of his abilitly... He has let this go on for so long and they usually fight and don't talk for a few weeks then one of them will either call or text him asking him to do something for them or appoligizing to him for being rude, and he automatically forgives them.. I cant find a way to help him understand how shitty it makes me feel when he does this... I feel sometimes like if I had never given him the a chance to fix what was broken 6 years ago things would be easier for both of us, but he assures me that we would both be miserable and not to let them get to me... Its just hard to keep my mouth shut and continue to let them bully me and treat me like Im scum of the earth... My Family Treats my husband like he is a King compared to how Im treated by his family.... If anyone has any advice for me or thinks Im wrong for cutting myself off this situations Im really desperate here.. Thanks
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